You First
- Ab'yt Mantis
- Feb 1
- 3 min read

Anxiety is controlling
Allowed to freely cause strife within you
The depression, stress, nightmares, negative emotions, and behavior..
But what is the source ?
Identify if there is anything to really fear
This is how you get your power back
If the fear is unfounded then take notice :
WHEN are these feelings creeping in ?
WHY do you think you are being triggered ?
By bringing in Self-Awareness emotions can be worked through
Once you have given yourself time to acknowledge your feelings and decode them you can recalibrate from the negative to the positive with
LOVE
You Love yourself by being incredibly gentle with your process
If you rush yourself you risk missing something that requires attention
even worse not dealing with that something head on
If you take your time, be steadfast in honesty to yourself, the healing will be thorough and complete
Keep in mind this isn't a race
The consistent honest effort alone is so much beautiful healthy work
Holding on to what doesn't serve you is the unhealthiest
FACE THE PAINS YOU ENDURED,
OWN THE PAINS YOU CREATED,
THEN RELEASE IT ALL & FEEL THE FREEDOM
This is work
The hardest work you will ever have to do
Once you immerse yourself in facing all that you have been
sweeping under the rug you will start to heal and it will take time.
there is a light at the end of dark the tunnel
FREE YOURSELF from the preoccupation with accumulation,
of the need to protect yourself from feelings of inner loss and inadequacy
Lower your defenses and open yourself up to facing the deeply buried feelings
If you are not doing the work,
Work that is literally in your best, healthiest, and loving interest,
There are signs :
Lack of Empathy
Lack of Compassion
Withholding affection in various relationships
Greed
Miserliness
Causing Conflict/Harm
Control
dissatisfaction
Negativity..
All of the above you most likely inflicted onto others
And. it is possible you felt vindication, pleased you had the last word,
that you were justified in your behaviors
THINK AGAIN
As the truth is, you were affected the harshest
and the proof is in the SIGNS
I WILL NEVER SUGGEST TO YOU
ANY WORK
I HAVEN'T DONE MYSELF
No one wins disagreements
Why drain yourself running in circles ?
Freedom is more valuable
Be true to yourself, that is true strength
Have willpower, courage, patience, and forgive
By doing the work you Heal yourself and others
It is all ENERGY
As you integrate your past with your present
Deeper connections await you
By facing old wounds and difficult memories you are releasing, healing,
and learn
TIME OUT
REST, PAUSE
IT IS ESSENTIAL TO LISTEN TO YOUR BODY Peace and Quiet is required for Self-understanding
THE OVERDOING, OVERTHINKING
THE HONEST INNER WORK NEED NOT BE A 24 hOUR MARATHON EVENT
Trust that rest, recovery, and reflection are essential to your progress
SIMPLY INCORPORATE THE OPPOSITE OF NEGATIVE IN EVERYTHING YOU CAN
COME FROM LOVE always
Welcome to your rebirth
It's an ending, a change, a new beginning
Doing the work is always the fastest way to happiness
You become more knowledgeable and powerful than before because you have outgrown what no longer serves you
Lessons learned
carry on without FEAR
Take a leap of faith, expand your horizons
Instead of dreaming about your future, live it
Opportunities await
This is what you have ben waiting for
Trust the Universe, your cheerleader, is taking care of the how in your progress
Visualize your needs and wants in detail and pounce
You will be setting everything in motion
Continue doing the WORK, it doesn't ever really end
We are human, We are flawed, We are beautiful
Show the Universe you have faith in it
Show gratitude
Receive everyone with Love
and reap the rewards
You are winning spiritually and materially
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