Self-Defeating Lies
- Ab'yt Mantis
- Jan 13
- 3 min read

Be your master alchemist, strive to create the perfect balance
You will find all the elements around you waiting to be spun into something new, just open your eyes
get out of your own way!
It is time for moderation, for balance, for the right mixture
thanks to fear you have been ignoring what needs tending to
all that which you swept under the rug
all that you have been ignoring
all that needs to be dealt with, is what will save you
a popular example
you are in a relationship aware that your person is toxic in many ways
the proof is in your lack of happiness
that's all you need to know about your relationship
it's not a healthy mindful challenging relationship that lifts you
you don't think, 'I can't wait to have another day with her/him'
'no matter my circumstances I can count on her/his emotional support'
'I am not feeling loved, valued'
'making love doesn't feel loving, it lacks depth, and feels obligatory..'
you are aware of your feelings on every aspect of your life
you buried the problems and they weigh on you
dealing with, facing an issue, is your only path to happiness
admitting there is an issue, is the first step
there is nothing to fear, absolutely nothing,
not even another human being
WHY ???
Because no other being has power over another being who has discovered their sovereignty
because you will decide to take back your power
when you do, you'll witness instantly, that the tables have turned !
in seeking alignment/realignment the energy of which both will bring abundance and ease
the bandaid has been ripped off!
discovering your sovereignty, applies to everything, everyone, anything whether a career/work issue, or personal relationship.
truly, any problem-solving needing situation will benefit
be honest about your wants, desires, and take action
zero action, procrastination, as you know, has it's consequences
the weight speaks for itself
resist fear, fear is an illusion
(obviously seek council if bodily harm in any way is a factor)
be true to yourself, the lies are yours and only yours
they are only harmful to you and have zero affect on anyone else especially if your other person is sovereign
sticks and stones..
there is a change in the air
sudden realizations
restrictions lifted
laser focus
the moment you choose to not ignore your troubles you are winning
it is a priceless feeling!
be on alert for the opportunities, the chances
fight the hopelessness, it is an illusion to control you too
you are the master creator manifestor
you create your own happiness
you are in charge! take charge!
it is absolutely no one else's responsibility to create your happiness
that's your one job
you can't fail by choosing you
loving yourself radiates onto others
you attract harmony in your relationships and
divine connections present themselves
wholeness
completion
you attract soul-mates and the trash takes itself out!
I am absolutely speaking from experience
you have opportunities to heal TAKE THEM
bring your shadows into the light
deal with them face to face, head on
shock yourself : when was the last time you felt in your power?
remember how amazing it felt?
what did it look like?
wanna see it again?
how does zero misery sound?
FIND YOUR INSPIRATION AGAIN
TAKE BACK YOUR POWER TODAY
I read this for reason! Such great insight and a powerful reminder that I need often!