REJECTION

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The One-sided Pursuit for Connection

The Lost Invitation

It is triggering when you want to love, share, and spend time with someone that couldn't be more disinterested

"WHY doesn't ___ see that I am their missing link..?"

"WHY doesn't ___ want me..?"

"But WHY not..?"

For many reasons

Most or all have nothing to do with you

It is paramount you put yourself first and not lose yourself trying to live up to the expectations of anyone else

Retreat inward

Ask yourself : "What experiences have I had that created a need for approval, for a one-sided connection ?"

This pursuit is giving :

Toxicity, abandonment, rejection, instability, lack of self-care, manipulation, an illogical mind, an absent self-worth, turbulent energies, distrust, inconsistency, zero empathy, selfishness, intolerance, resistance to beneficial change, delusion, fantasy, wounds, fear, dependence, submission, anxiety, control, gaslighting, blackmail, criticism..

You are projecting the very same traits you feel triggered by

Take accountability for your own feelings

Your advances are simply unwelcome

The reason is none of your business

You are condemning without the facts/reasons and these remain

none of your business

You are simply wasting your own precious time leaving your lane and

there are always consequences to this behavior

You create your own reality

You impose your own pain

The control or lack of is your own doing

Your emotions are NO ONE else's responsibility

And deluding otherwise is dangerous/unhealthy for,

the runner and you, the chaser

Actions provoke reactions

Your judgement is clouded

Focus on finding Balance

Honesty is healthiest, Slice through the fog,

seek clarity of motivation and intention

Aim for equilibrium through truth and fairness

Comparing your pain to someone else's is futile

EGO is in control, and it is a liar surviving on limited perspectives

Fear's mission is to turn you into someone you are not

CLARITY

The truth will reveal itself in time

'Burn' away and transmute lower energies around you, the toxic people, the neediness, negativity, fear, anger taking up space in your core..

there is a need to protect and purify your energy at all times

to avoid the drain of dark energies that try to bring you down

The work that must be done on ourselves will never be an overnight fix

Find patience and Be loving to yourself

you have ZERO control over any human being

Truly recognizing this absolute is a huge step in the healthiest greatest best most loving direction for yourself and is life-altering

Use your you time to see things as they really are and in doing so

Your sovereignty will return, lucidity, Spiritual breakthroughs, awareness, all propelling you forward onto your divine soul's true journey, creating a shift in your paradigm, and activating the flow of insight from your unconscious mind

Your focused mind is elevating you to pursue your goals, dreams

Your Divine Self has nothing to fear, there has only been an attempt on your CONFIDENCE

Dig deep, see beyond the immediate problems, and transmute all that no longer serves you

Unplug, Switch off, Be still, rest your mind, and Step into nature

or use color to help heal

YELLOW for positivity, creativity

BLUE for relaxing, calming

GREEN for peace

PURPLE to promote rest

BROWN reduces fatigue

Use the spectrum to recharge, renew, revitalize your physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual body to maintain your well-being, prevent discord, and illness

Take a moment and question what you do for yourself at present to achieve well-being

Healing involves many different facets, from changing your thought processes, to exercise, to altering negative habits and circumstances that cause imbalance

Look into different healing methods and tools to create optimum health

You need a GENUINE DESIRE to change for the healthier and heal

Your well-being comes first

If you've been coming up with excuses to this point in the post

you are not getting out of your own way

I am here to help

book a reading with Me to take back your freedom

🫶🏻 Ab'yt

The Original Blog Topic Request :

"Not taking this personally, and how to make that shift"

When one misses a connection to a person and needs to stop pursing, it inevitably feels personal."