Challenges Conflict Possessiveness
- Ab'yt Mantis
- Jan 22
- 2 min read

It is a process to shift from victim to victor
You can't see it or feel it
Give yourself permission to let go
You could be making yourself sick
Depleting what you have left
NOW is all that matters
Call it
Call defeat, surrender, and rise above
It is the only direction that makes sense
What is holding you in stagnation is a vice of your own making
Face the issue, acknowledge what happened, look at what could have been handled differently, and call it
Life is an experience filled with lessons to learn that will benefit you going forward
So talk this pain through to exhaustion
really
talk it out until your exhausted of it, feel every feeling, every trigger that comes up, ASK WHY, 'Why does this make me feel this way?"
Keep doing this as you look at this experience from every angle
This will help you LET IT GO
This way, the trash takes out itself
There is nothing to fear, just own what needs to be worked on, don't repeat the mistake, be mindful on the next and presto, you learned the lesson
Be vigilant so there are no repeats
Never give your power away
actions by another, that leads to destabilizing your peace, is never allowed
The space your mind and body occupy is sacred
CONFLICT
This could involve creative endeavours
Work through the challenges by coming up with strategies to overcome
focus and determination will see you through to the other side of this
Losing patience ? Motivation ?
keep in mind this is all part of the plan :
experience, learn, remember, and become stronger
challenges can be healthy and inspiring you to grow into the best you
do avoid the unhealthy side of this, the shadow, conflict, or ambition any of the above planting you in ego.
the need to be right can blind you from your goals
retreat from these energies as they can be a hinderance
check yourself always
it's work, but in the long run it's worth it, it's healthy
The difference being that healthy collabs or competition, inspire and motivate, they don't drain
possessiveness
Coveting, controlling, a lack mindset, over-focusing on the material,
let go of any jealousy or resentment
is your ego dictating your behavior on what others have or don't ?
valuing what really matters ?
give thanks for what you have
gratitude breeds blessings and negativity repels them
instead repel your fear that what's yours will be taken away
Live generously
wish the best of everything to others, and if they're in need help if you can, as it will work miracles for you
The Universe rewards the healthiest, honest, best, purest, and loving deeds
This is so eye opening! It's explained so well....and truly makes sense. I will come back to this to shift from ego to compassion and feeling. ♥️